STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST CHILDREN

 STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST CHILDREN
 By:Berenk

So many stories about violence in the family. Ranging from cases to cases of sexual child abuse. When it should be the child as the fruit of the love of parents cherished, loved, educated and protected even feel the opposite.
Their proverb says "my house is my heaven" far from what is envisioned. Of the tens of millions of households in Indonesia, every day is always found in cases of violence, published in various media. What will become of this nation, if the culture of violence into everyday spectacle? It turns everything has materialized. In addition to beating violence with violence also frequently appeared lately is sexual violence. During January and February 2013, the National Commission for Child Protection (Komnas PA) received 48 reports of sexual assault on a child, of a total of 80 cases of child abuse were reported. In 2012, about 48 percent of the 2,637 cases handled in Komnas PA is a case of sexual assault on a child.
Terasebut young boy was subjected to extremely vulnerable to this violence because almost every case revealed, the culprit is someone close to the victim. Not a few perpetrators who have dominance over the victim, such as parents and teachers. Almost all cases of child sexual abuse was revealed after it happened, and not a few were fatal. The ability of actors to master the victim, either by trickery or threats and violence, causing crime is hard to avoid.
With children often get kekersan both physically and pisikologi, then do not be surprised if they start to grow up frequent brawls that children do junior and senior high schools, to students who have always graced the screen. Likewise fighting between villages that have always made uneasy every time. All of this estuary certainly because the culture of violence has permeated family homes in Indonesia.
There can be no single religion that justifies violence culture. "Affection" should be the basic principle of building a good life in a family. Just look at the teachings of Islam, the Prophet Muhammad provides a shining example to mankind. This great leaders often treat children who met with great tenderness. One was when he said to Umair who was playing with Nugair, bird. "O Umair, what is being done by Nugair?" Asked the Prophet. In another narration the Prophet end times ever reprimanded Aqra bin Habis a Bedouin who had ten children but never kissed her forehead. "To care for the earth, because you will be loved Yang in the sky".
How berbahagianya if a family in Indonesia could take a paragon of the story above. Confidence education without violence on children is key for any parent to be able to get affection from the Almighty. So that the child will grow and develop in an atmosphere of abundant affection.
Doing violence to torture a child is a parent's behavior that could jeopardize the future of the child. In the opinion of Vander Zanden (1989), torture behavior can be defined as a form of physical assault or injure a child; and the deed is done precisely by guardians (parents or non-family caregivers). According to the research data revealed that physical torture experienced by children from infancy, and continues until childhood through adolescence.
In the opinion of psychiatrists who gathered in a Community Association for Preventing Violence in Children in the UK (1999). They argue that the neglect of children is also an attitude of torture but rather passive. The effects of child abuse or neglect against both bring bad consequences. To know more clearly what and to what extent the impact of parental attitudes that way, you can look at our article on the impact of parental abuse and neglect of children.
For verily in educating children to use violence can be physical membahayakn soul, intellect, morals and social life of children. In addition there are many negative impacts arising from the children who are familiar with the culture of violence. As endangering state security, the economy of the family and society, the progress of nations including the continuation of religion as an important basis of the founding of the nation and the State of Indonesia, as noted in the first principle of Pancasila.
For it was on the whole family, it's time to stop the culture of violence in the household, especially to children. Educate children by using violence and rudeness will only make the child grow into a destructive, mischievous, rebellious, and more concern can make it accustomed to hypocrisy. Become our common dreams and hopes, that great nation and has good character and noble manners, will only be realized if we begin to eliminate the culture of violence

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